Hey lovebirds, ✨
Let’s talk about freedom.
Not just the fireworks-and-barbecue kind—but the kind that matters most in your relationship: financial freedom.
If you are planning a wedding, building a life together, or already deep in coupledom, here is something you need to hear loud and clear:
True love does not mean financial dependence.
True love means choosing each other because you want to—not because your finances are tangled like last year’s Christmas lights.
What Financial Independence Actually Looks Like in Marriage
It is not about keeping secrets or having separate bank accounts (though that works for some!). It is about knowing:
- What you each earn and spend
- What assets you are bringing into the marriage
- What debts you are bringing into the marriage
- What happens if life changes—because it will
- How you will divide responsibilities, both emotionally and financially
True love is about creating clarity, equality, and choice. And there is no better time to talk about that than during the most freedom-focused month of the year.
Why Prenups Are a Financial Independence Tool (Yes, Really)
Here’s the truth: a prenuptial agreement does not take away your freedom—it gives you more of it.
- It creates boundaries and expectations around money.
- It protects what you have built.
- It ensures you are walking into marriage with full awareness—not assumptions.
- It takes the power from the state government + places the power back in your hands.
So many of the marital issues I see in court could have been avoided with an honest financial conversation before walking down the aisle.
Independence Is Sexy. So Is Planning Ahead.
What’s not cute? Resentment, confusion, or feeling stuck because you did not ask the hard questions upfront.
What is cute?
A well-written prenup that reflects your values, protects your assets, and supports your future.
Because nothing says “I love you” like saying: “Let’s build this on honesty and mutual respect, because I am here for the long haul.”
Ready to Have the Money Talk?
If you are getting engaged, planning a wedding, or just know you are the kind of woman who needs a game plan— Book a Prenup Strategy Session with me today.
Let us celebrate your love with freedom, clarity, and confidence—because that’s the kind of independence everyone deserves.
xo,
The Prenup QueenTM
