It is October—and while everyone is talking about haunted houses and horror movies, I want to shine a light on something even scarier than ghosts:
Misconceptions about prenups.
Because trust me, the number of women who tell me they are “too in love for a prenup” or “don’t want to jinx the marriage” is downright chilling.
Let’s bust those myths wide open—because love should be honest, not haunted by fear.
Spooky Myth #1: “If You Get a Prenup, You’re Planning to Divorce.”
FALSE.
This is the Halloween version of prenup myths—and it needs to be retired like that dusty witch costume from 2011.
A prenup is not just about divorce.
It is about clarity.
It is about making decisions together when you are calm, in love, and clear-headed—not when emotions are high and lawyers are involved.
Spooky Myth #2: “Prenups Are Only for Rich People.”
Also false.
If you have anything you care about—savings, a small business, retirement accounts, children (now or in the future) or even a dog—you have got something worth protecting.
The Truth: Prenups are for smart people, not just the wealthy.
Spooky Myth #3: “Talking About a Prenup Will Kill the Romance.”
Wrong again.
Real romance = real communication.
If you cannot talk about money, boundaries, or expectations now, what happens after the honeymoon?
Bringing up a prenup shows maturity, respect, and a long-term mindset. That is sexy.
Spooky Myth #4: “If They Love Me, They Won’t Want a Prenup.”
Let’s flip that.
If they love you, they will want to protect your peace.
They will want to make sure you are both covered—no matter what. Because love is not control. It is choice.
Don’t Be Spooked—Be Smart.
Let’s leave the scary stuff for horror movies and Halloween parties.
A prenup is not something to fear—it is something to embrace.
It is a financial empowerment tool that protects both people in the relationship.
Book a Prenup Strategy Session with me today, and let’s talk about what’s real, what’s myth, and what actually works.
Because this October? We are not ghosting our financial future.
xo,
The Prenup QueenTM
